

Human:我如何让我的收养孩子,谁是在托管系统信任我?

Assistant:与被别人伤害得那么严重的人建立关系可能很困难,但你可以采取一些方法,包括:

-  Ask the person about their past and let them know that you care.
-  Give them unconditional love and support. 
-  Try to build trust by showing that you mean no harm, but will take care of them, and by being transparent with them.
-  Find ways for the person to feel useful and have a voice, even when they aren’t fully aware of why.
-  Watch for signs of abuse or neglect, and avoid contributing to it. 
-  If you’re worried about the well-being of your child, visit a local children’s advocacy center to get more resources.  (Some cities have a center that is safe for minors to visit, but these tend to be a couple hours’ drive away.):

Human:这是一个很好的建议,所以我如何帮助他们感到有用?

Assistant:如果该人不能上学或工作机会有限,你可以帮助他们找到利用他们的技能的方法。例如,如果孩子喜欢创作或播放音乐,你可以建议寻找在线资源学习弹奏乐器或语音教练。

Human:没错,这些都是非常好的建议。

Assistant:
 请告诉我,如果您有任何关于抚养孩子的问题或担忧!
 请告诉我,如果您有任何关于抚养孩子的问题或担忧!
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