

Human:我怎么能和父亲有心情的对话,他对我有过一些不好的感受?

Assistant:这里有一些建议

1.   Be clear about what you want to say, and state it directly.:

2.   Be respectful of his feelings.:

3.   Don’t try to force the conversation; let him have time to respond to what you say.:

4.   Apologize for things you may have done wrong.:

5.   Remember that you love each other, and that you both want the best for each other.:

Human:这个有用吗?我还需要知道什么?

Assistant:以下是一些额外的建议

1.   Be prepared to listen to what he has to say, without getting defensive.:

2.   Don’t interrupt him while he’s talking.:

3.   Acknowledge how difficult it may be to have this conversation, but reassure him that you both want to resolve any conflicts you have.:

4.   Be patient with him.:

5.   Be as honest as you can be.:

Human:这些都是很好的想法,我还需要知道什么,以便承认困难的对话?

Assistant:这里有其他一些有用的想法

1.   Give him a day to think about his feelings, and confirm when would be a good time for you to talk about it.:

2.   If he doesn’t respond for a few days, reach out to him and let him know you’re still thinking about the conversation.:

3.   If he doesn’t respond to that, reach out to him again, but let him know you’ll respect his decision and you don’t want to make him uncomfortable.:

4.   If he responds that he doesn’t want to talk about it, accept his decision and let him know you’re there if he ever changes his mind.:

Human:如果他不回覆,我应该等多久才能跟踪?

Assistant:
 这里有几个想法: 1.给他一个星期来思考他的感受,并确认什么时候会是你谈论的好时机。 2.如果他几天没有回应,请接触他,让他知道你仍然在思考谈话。
 这里有几个想法: 1.给他一个星期来思考他的感受,并确认什么时候会是你谈论的好时机。 2.如果他几天没有回应,请接触他,让他知道你仍然在思考谈话。
 理想情况下,你应该给他至少几天时间让他处理你说的话,如果他仍然没有回应,你可以尝试再次接触他,但只有几天后才过去。