the location is not secret from you, dearest O, it is the rest of the internet peeps that frighten me (and the vampires too). you are not scary, at all, to me, at least 😉 every place has funny, smart and compassionate people i suspect (having not been to every place), but my visits to cali were not as pleasant as your residence, i guess. either way, i will turn your comments into a compliment, as i believe they were intended 🙂