This goal is very important to me. It has taken me a long time to realize that I need to be #1 before I can do anything for anyone else. I have decided to do more of what makes me happy. Like right now, I am not having dinner because I don't want dinner. I am sitting here, blogging, while my kids watch TV in the living room and I am munching on a plate of strawberries, chocolate and cheese. I am in heaven right now. I have spent my entire life working hard to make sure others are happy and I have neglected myself so yes, I will be a little selfish this year.