This same happens in Nepal. I am a Finn and my husband is Nepali. I was really young when we got married so I didn’t wanted to have kids right away so we did wait. About two months after our wedding people started to ask why we don’t have any kids yet. When we told them that we will wait they did not agree at all. Now, after 3,5 years of marriage we have one gorgeous baby boy! Now the question is if he is going to have any brothers soon. But having son as a first born is much more easier than a daughter. Our friends only wanted one child and it happend to be a girl, now the husband family is so dissapointed with her because she is not giving any grandsons to them. It is so sad, but that is the way here. Nowadays even I tease our newlywed friedns about kids, not in a mean way though. 🙂 Just hang in there!