Funny, reading this all I think is “Thank God my fiance’s sister will probably have kids and I can’t wait to hear what everyone has to say once they find out that we don’t want any!” My fiance (he’s Indian, of course, or this comment wouldn’t be relevant, lol) says he wants whatever I want and that it’s my body, so it’s my choice, but also says that kids are a liability in regards to our happiness and our plans for our future (I couldn’t agree more). Moreover, he says he doesn’t care what anyone else thinks…but I do know that, in many ways, the disappointment over not having children will likely fall on my foreigner shoulders – if he had married a nice Indian girl, they’d have grandkids from him….oh well!