Am I truly at that place in my life where I have genuine love for others...I don't think so. I think God is working in me and I am making progress but I hope the day will come when I am truly selfless. If I or other Christians want to make an impact on this earth we must be long suffering. Often times, I shut down family members if they have views that are contrary to mine. I am not saying we should be tolerant - if we truly loved people we should speak the truth. How many times as Christians have we judged others based on their appearance - I mean we are not the world right but we often treat people like this. God looks at the heart and I believe one day that I will have the Lord's eyes when interacting with people.