Since you have been following me like a stalker, you know that i make the same comments about Black women in relationships with white males. They eliminate all of the Black men who have ever been to jail because someone who has been incarcerated is no longer "good. While I am at that Please have a think about developing datijg toughness I am in the middle of a book which to me seems like it is the missing puzzle I have been searching for in bringing things together for me.