I'm glad to hear that in your experience, the encouragement of modest dress has come from good intentions. However, I'm not alone in receiving sexist, objectifying comments. Like I said, it all started when I was about 17 and suddenly had boobs. I was a fairly innocent teenager and honestly naive about how to be "sexy," although I knew how to be pretty. But I received a lot of judgment for wearing the same kinds of clothes I wore pre-boobs.