Father H. cautioned me, after naming a sin, “be careful with that.” It struck me as to the seriousness of toying around with any sin in our lives. “Be careful with that.” Father O. would often give me the penance to pray with Psalm 139 “O Lord, you have searched me and known me.” This has become a major theme of my spiritual life, and many of my penitents have come to know and love this psalm. I found that, with all these different priests, I was able to find wisdom and insight.