Jeffery I think you’ve gotten caught up a bit too much in your surprise and have failed to look past the act at the context and the reactions of the characters involved. Ean’s brother makes a great point, her decision was to be tortured and killed or teach someone how to subvert a compulsion and escape. Your “alpha male” argument in this case is beyond ridiculous and you’ve attached your own egotistical view point here in regard to dissolution to the marriage. What your describing even doesn’t fit the mold of what an “alpha male” would be to begin with. In your world apparently alpha male means sniveling and insecure and to stupid to look at the facts of what happened and why. If my wife had to sleep with someone to save her life and also by doing so increases the likelihood of saving mankind from immortal creatures bent on destroying the universe then so be it. Would it be difficult, yes, would I forgive her and move on with life, yes. Also, in what world are you living in where you read into her enjoying this and showing a complete lack of remorse or guilt? Did you stop reading and not move forward as soon as it happened? I think you’re attaching something of personal significance in your own life here, because nothing you said makes sense or is factual.