Ah Lauren – I can totally relate to this post and probably so can most women married to Indian men! My sister in-law just had a baby a few months ago so I naively assumed that the spotlight would be on her for a while but it seems my cute niece’s arrival has had the opposite effect – everyone is asking me much more frequently now when we are planning to have a child! Even my own mother, who has been relaxed and liberal about most things until this year, has started pressuring me every time we talk. SOS – help! 🙂 PS: Very happy that you started blogging again.