I read this post after your pregnancy announcement so first off, heartiest congratulations! I understand what you were going through when you wrote this. Been married for 3 years and the pressure keeps coming on and off. Although, we don’t have anyone nagging us but the sporadic discussion can be scary. I mean, when someone asks me ‘When…’, my first thought is ‘Do we even want?’. All the the questions make our doubts on parenthood seem almost unnatural. ‘ur friends are mothers now, what’s holding you back?’ How do you explain to people you love so much that sometimes you and your husband think travelling at will, not having a lifelong responsibility…are genuine thoughts? Or that wanting to be a parent when you hold a small baby is also a genuine thought?