Something that one is born with cannot be wrong. Most people wouldn’t say to a person who cannot walk that it is wrong for him to not walk and therefore he should walk. Though I have a sense that you might. That is simply hateful. No ifs, ands or buts. Hateful. I don’t need to try to see it from your point of view to know that. For many years I’ve struggled with whether I am wrong on this or if God is wrong. And that is the quandary.