Then you are ready to begin the process of healing and rebuilding the relationship. Give your relationship with your ex the proper amount of time to heal. Pain associated with deception is going to take a while to heal and is not something to be rushed. By deception, it has not only hurt your feelings and your heart, but also its image of itself as well as the trust between the two. Take the appropriate time to heal, to work through the problems they are facing and takes time restoring your relationship. It is not advisable to enter fully into your relationship and pretend deception never happened must take steps in baby with the relationship and work to rebuild trust and get to know each other on a more personal level. Be careful to jump again in a relationship and not move too fast.