Dorothy, forgive me, but I have dealt with this objection before. According to the Torah, God “detests” all sorts of things. Eating rabbit, abalone, shrimp are all “detestable” to God. Having sex with your wife during her period is “detestable”, a sin for which the couple is to be cut off from God’s people. That last one is in a long list of sexual sins which includes sex between two men.