Thank you for sharing this post. My husband and I are in the same situation. We’ve been married for two and a half years and have no children yet. My in-laws don’t push the children issue, but the rest of my husband’s family is, and especially my family. As you stated in your post, my husband and my entire family are waiting to see the Indian-White baby. I agree with you one hundred percent, something this personal should only be between the husband and wife.