As Worf from Star Trek once said, “Only fools have no fear”, it will be the case for you that there are things in the world that you just don’t feel comfortable with. It’s okay, the chances are that in your experience particular circumstances don’t go well or to be expected for you. This is true for all of us if we are honest, and this doesn’t make you less of a person or weaker than others who can do these things. We’re all different and that means we have to be accepting of the differences we notice in ourselves. For better or for worse, we just don’t want to be responsible for or involved in certain things. As long as we can be honest about that and generate a situation where we can limit our energy in those unwanted directions without negative effects then it will create a firmer position to build on.