The addiction to gamble is in the mind – it is not something that can be medicated against – it requires proper treatment. Never underestimate it. If you think he has ****** from you the chances are that he has. Know in advance what your action will be if he betrays your trust – his addiction is forever awake and ready to defend itself. If you doubt yourself it will see the crack in your defence. My own attitude is that I will never again allow the addiction to gamble into my life. It is a question of getting your own mind strong to the possibilities and meaning what you say.