Do you actually want a relationship? What do you really need from a relationship? Do you have the time and bandwidth to give this a real, palpable shot? Or are you merely pursuing the idea of a “successful” relationship that’s informed by the media or your social circle? Have you already married a seemingly-perfect stranger in your head based on a three-sentence bio? Do they genuinely seem like they’re making an effort to get to know you? Or are they just inconsistently responding to you with one-word answers?