I hoped you would discuss this Lauren, I was appalled when I saw those messages. I can’t stand comments about people’s reproductive choices. Drives me mad. I’m afraid to say that it is rude and insensitive and should stop. I believe women bear the brunt of this. When I had my daughter it didn’t stop either, don’t you want a boy? They would say, you shouldn’t have an only child you are selfish, on and on. Luckily I’m quite good at sticking up for myself!! Actually I was quite rude in the end. I feel for people that are not good at a quick comeback or are more polite than I am ! I never ask anyone questions about it. Think up some quick and sharp answers ladies because it doesn’t stop for years, you never get it right unless you have one boy, one girl it seems that is the most satisfactory…. Aaahhhhh