i only told specific ladies who i already talk “shop” with and they probably will not even know what to do with selves. racy talk versus racy reads are two diff things to them. they do not necessarily like to watch scenes in movies either. always interesting to talk about changes in world, morality and personal preference. i did not go tell the gentlemen as i do not want to appear provocative or inappropriate 😉 like you, i do have a filter in the real world *giggles*