Wow, I didnt know I created such a stir here with my comment. Yes, like Laurean said, I said nothing about her in-laws – neither is her whole post related to her in-laws, it is more about people around. ANd since she stays in a smaller place in India, if she gets a girl first, I am almost 100% sure she will get these comments and looks from people around. Not that it should bother us but as she also said – after 100 times, it does start to bother:) ANd when you have your beautiful tiny baby girl in your hands, then these pityful looks do make your feel irritated and hurt because your baby is your happiness regardless of the sex.