Gee, you still really need to ask? Asking such an unreasonable thing as suggesting one change their innate sexual attraction despite the fact there is no scientific proof it can be done is not reasonable. You wouldn’t ask a lame person to walk (I hope). When it is clear that such attempts cause harm to the subject individual it is reasonable to call it hateful and unreasonable. Knowing such implications of the scripture you cite yet refusing to question whether a loving God would really create someone to be gay and then call them an abomination to be shunned and even put to death makes no sense.