my indian inlaws gave us 2 years before we needed to have a baby 😛 I was told to enjoy marriage for 2 years but then we want babies! but after 1 year they started asking where the baby was, all. the. time. I found it very stressful as we had in fact been trying and I had already shed many tears in private. We are pregnant now which is wonderful. And contrary to the comment above, my indian in laws are desperate for a girl! the last generation was all boys so now they want a girl but i suspect it will be another boy