I am just like you, except I started in 4th grade and am a sophomore, but I do live in Maryland. All-State is incredibly difficult to get in to in Maryland. No one in my county has made it for the past 10 years or so. Lots of us have tried, but no one gets in. However, you don't have to get into All-State to be a "good violinist." All that matters is that if you enjoy the instrument- you really, really love it- and it's something you want to do for the rest of your life. I plan on getting a double major in violin performance and English, and then go on to seminary. That way, I'll have a job, but I can also join an orchestra or teach privately.