Bubleeshaark, you owe it to yourself to become better informed. If you can avoid making a stink, and enter with a desire to really learn something you don’t already know, I would suggest attending a PFLAG meeting. I would suggest going to gaychristian.net and read a bit. I have posted a number of personal coming out stories on my site here. You can read many coming out stories by gays and lesbians raised as fundamentalists if you’ll go to bjunity.org (LGBT alumni of Bob Jones University).