Experience is a wonderful thing. It enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again, and it's what you get when you don't get what you want. Marriage isn't supposed to make you happy - it's supposed to make you married. Marriage, like a submarine, is only safe if you get all the way inside. Bad marriages don't cause infidelity; infidelity causes bad marriages. For most people, a life lived alone, with passing strangers or passing lovers, is incoherent and ultimately