I am breaking my usual “don’t give advice unless it’s asked for rule.” However, I have been through some grief in my life, and this helped me tremendously. Every day, write your feelings. Not for the blog, not for anyone else to read, only for yourself. Write it out, cry and sob and hitch. Next day, write it out again and keep doing it every day. For myself as a writer, this somehow organizes the grief so that I can view it and come to terms with it. I am always amazed at how it helps. When the day comes that I sit down to write it again, and find that I don’t need to, that I’m understanding the ins and outs of it as I did not before, then I stop. So, sorry for the unasked for advice, but I think writers must stick together.