My experience with school districts and actually anything in general, is they will always say no the first time. I guess that's their way of weeding out the ones who won't persue it. You're son has every right to what is necessary to keep him safe and successful. Every district (as far as I know) have a director of Special Services (maybe a differnt title where you are) I'm assuming you met he or she at the IEP meeting. My advice is just don't take No for an answer. There are advocate groups in all states to fight for Gus's rights. Find that person and they will do the work for you. They know what is legal and what isn't. Public school especially can't deny Gus of anything. Look into the NO Child Left Behind Law, I'm sure there's something in there that will protect Gus's rights. Good Luck.