Ya but she married!LOL!!I know what you mean though.Life is to short, and I'm gonna spend it why I can! I lost everything in a divorce 2 years ago and worked my A$$ to get back on my feet.I even moved back with my folks for 6months"it had been 20years since I lived at home" I wasn't trying ruffle any Feathers.I take a Crap in the morning just like everyone else!