i have been in a lot of romantic relationships that have ended up poorly.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Romance is the expressive and pleasurable feeling from an emotional attraction towards another person. This feeling is associated with, but does not necessitate, sexual attraction. For most people it is eros rather than agape, philia, or storge. In the context of romantic love relationships, romance usually implies an expression of one's strong romantic love, or one's deep and strong emotional desires to connect with another person intimately or romantically. Historically, the term \"\"romance\"\" originates with the medieval ideal of chivalry as set out in its \"chivalric romance\" literature. Humans have a natural inclination to form bonds with one another through social interactions, be it through verbal communication or nonverbal gestures. The debate over an exact definition of romantic love may be found in literature as well as in the works of psychologists, philosophers, biochemists and other professionals and specialists. Romantic love is a relative term, but generally accepted as a definition that distinguishes moments and situations within intimate relationships to an individual as contributing to a significant relationship connection. Historians believe that the actual English word \"romance\" developed from a vernacular dialect within the French language meaning \"verse narrative\"\u2014referring to the style of speech, writing, and artistic talents within elite classes.\n"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I don't know how to be romantic. I have trouble expressing emotional attraction."}, {"role": "user", "content": "I feel the same. I find it hard to make many friends so finding a romantic partner seems impossible."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "The term \"romance\" originated in the medieval ideal of chivalry."}, {"role": "user", "content": "Interesting. I feel that today the meaning has been changed to fit with Hollywood's idea of romance."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "For sure. Romantic love is relative but usually accepted as moments of intimacy."}, {"role": "user", "content": "Romance can be small acts, like making breakfast for your significant other. But it's portrayed as grand gestures which are unattainable. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I agree it has been portrayed as impossible actions. Love consists of a variety of emotion and mental states."}, {"role": "user", "content": "It seems that in todays world it can be even harder to find a partner too."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Good point. Romance is associated with perfect partners, which is often unattainable. Sexual attraction often is stronger."}, {"role": "user", "content": "I suppose. But I think that sexual attraction is just the initial feeling which then turns into romance."}]