my parents were divorced.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the termination of a marriage or marital union, the canceling or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country or state. Divorce laws vary considerably around the world, but in most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process, which may involve issues of alimony (spousal support), child custody, child visitation / access, parenting time, child support, distribution of property, and division of debt. In most countries, monogamy is required by law, so divorce allows each former partner to marry another person; where polygyny is legal but polyandry is not, divorce allows the woman to marry another person. Divorce should not be confused with annulment, which declares the marriage null and void; with legal separation or \"de jure\" separation (a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a \"de facto\" separation while remaining legally married) or with \"de facto separation\" (a process where the spouses informally stop cohabiting). Reasons for divorce vary, from sexual incompatibility or lack of independence for one or both spouses to a personality clash.\n"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Why do you think most people get divorced? Is it lack of independence or sexual incompatability or something else?"}, {"role": "user", "content": "I think it is that people just don't match each other anymore. I think they may fall out of love or drift apart. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I think sexual incompatability is the biggest reason personally, it leads to a lot of divorce directly or indirectly"}, {"role": "user", "content": "Some probably have to do with that. I think a lot of people get restless and have a \"grass is greener on the other side mentality.\" There is also a lack of commitment from a lot of people. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "i think most of the countries with arranged marriages have low divorce rates, why do you think that is?"}, {"role": "user", "content": "I think that people are put together based on how compatible they are and that makes for better marriages. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I suppose so, but you would think courtship and social activities would help, or being alone together"}, {"role": "user", "content": "I think that people from those countries also have a different mindset about it. In America people are just groomed to think marriage can be easily ended and they live like that. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "That has to be true, a 50% divorce rate is insane to really think about"}, {"role": "user", "content": "That is really really high. It is sad to think that when you see all the joy surrounding weddings. "}]