i am proposing tonight.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognised union between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between those spouses, as well as between them and any resulting biological or adopted children and affinity (in-laws and other family through marriage). The definition of marriage varies around the world not only between cultures and between religions, but also throughout the history of any given culture and religion, evolving to both expand and constrict in who and what is encompassed, but typically it is principally an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually sexual, are acknowledged or sanctioned. In some cultures, marriage is recommended or considered to be compulsory before pursuing any sexual activity. When defined broadly, marriage is considered a cultural universal. A marriage ceremony is known as a wedding. Individuals may marry for several reasons, including legal, social, libidinal, emotional, financial, spiritual, and religious purposes. Whom they marry may be influenced by socially determined rules of incest, prescriptive marriage rules, parental choice and individual desire. In some areas of the world, arranged marriage, child marriage, polygamy, and sometimes forced marriage, may be practiced as a cultural tradition.\n"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I've been working up to proposing to my girlfriend. I've been reading about the history of marriage in order to get confidence. One thing I think I love about it is that it's culturally universal. How many things can you say that about? Everyone in the world celebrates it."}, {"role": "user", "content": "Well sure we are here to procreate and that takes two and raising a family is a teamwork kind of thing"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Right, yeah. But what also blew my mind when reading up about the cultural aspect of marriage is the fact that child marriage, polygamy, and forced marriages still exist in today's day and age. They're all cultural traditions that are celebrated and enforced."}, {"role": "user", "content": "That is disheartening, I have read that child marriage exists in the rural west of the US and just did not want to believe it"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "That's interesting. I was specifically referencing child marriage in India, for example, where according to their law the woman can be below 18, or the man below 21. Most of the women involved are from poor socio-economic backgrounds, too. The International Center for Research on Women-UNICEF publications have estimated India's child marriage rate to be 47% from small sample surveys of 1998, while the United Nations reports it to be 30% in 2005"}, {"role": "user", "content": "Yeah sounds like its labeled as marriage but is really human trafficking that is sanctioned by the Indian government?"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Possibly. It's hard to determine that, when cultural traditions are involved. Sometimes cultures are just different. At the very least, child marriage rates have been falling in India every 10 years since 1981."}, {"role": "user", "content": "Well that is good news and I am sure the Human Rights organizations try to influence those cultures"}]