i have 3 ex wives.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the termination of a marriage or marital union, the canceling or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country or state. Divorce laws vary considerably around the world, but in most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process, which may involve issues of alimony (spousal support), child custody, child visitation / access, parenting time, child support, distribution of property, and division of debt. In most countries, monogamy is required by law, so divorce allows each former partner to marry another person; where polygyny is legal but polyandry is not, divorce allows the woman to marry another person. Divorce should not be confused with annulment, which declares the marriage null and void; with legal separation or \"de jure\" separation (a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a \"de facto\" separation while remaining legally married) or with \"de facto separation\" (a process where the spouses informally stop cohabiting). Reasons for divorce vary, from sexual incompatibility or lack of independence for one or both spouses to a personality clash.\n"}, {"role": "user", "content": "Looks like my marriage is on the rocks - my wife wants a divorce - I have no idea where to start or what to do first!"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Oh no! So you want to have a dissolution of marriage and cancel your legal responsibilities? Do you have a lawyer? "}, {"role": "user", "content": "No, I don't have a lawyer - I guess I should get one?  I wonder how long it takes to get the divorce?  I don't want this to drag on!"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "The laws surrounding divorce vary considerably around the world. I'm not going to ask where you're living but most divorces require going to court! "}, {"role": "user", "content": "Oh great, exactly what I didn't want to do!  Well, at least we don't have any children, so that's one less worry!"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah that's good! You dodged a bullet on that one. You can also just get an annulment which declares the marriage null and void. I think that might be easier.  "}, {"role": "user", "content": "The easier, the better! I'll call a lawyer first thing in the morning, and I'll ask him about getting an annulment!  You've been a big help, thanks!"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Great idea. Whatever the reason for separating... like sexual incompatibility or lack of independence, you'll feel better when It's all finished!"}]