i fell in love this summer.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Courtship is the period in a couple's relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage, or establishment of an agreed relationship of a more enduring kind. During courtship, a couple get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement or other such agreement. A courtship may be an informal and private matter between two people or may be a public affair, or a formal arrangement with family approval. Traditionally, in the case of a formal engagement, it has been perceived that it is the role of a male to actively \"court\" or \"woo\" a female, thus encouraging her to understand him and her receptiveness to a proposal of marriage. The average duration of courtship varies considerably throughout the world. Furthermore, there is vast individual variation between couples. Courtship may be completely omitted, as in cases of some arranged marriages where the couple do not meet before the wedding. In the United Kingdom, a poll of 3,000 engaged or married couples resulted in an average duration between first meeting and accepted proposal of marriage of 2 years and 11 months, with the women feeling ready to accept at an average of 2 years and 7 months. Regarding duration between proposal and wedding, the UK poll above gave an average of 2 years and 3 months.\n"}, {"role": "user", "content": "I do love to be courted!  Flowers, chocolates, dinners, bring it on!"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "How long do you think is appropriate for courtship before deciding whether the relationship will lead to an engagement or marriage?"}, {"role": "user", "content": "I'm not certain it ever has to end up as either.  Depends on how things go in the courtship"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I agree. I usually know after about 3 dates whether I am compatible with the person and want to continue pursuing the relationship. "}, {"role": "user", "content": "Perhaps a relationship isn't always the desired end though.  Can't people just enjoy each other's company and the fun of a courtship?"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I imagine that depends on your goals; whether you are courting for fun or looking for a serious relationship that may lead to something more like marriage. As long as both people are on the same page, I see nothing wrong with that. "}, {"role": "user", "content": "I agree.  I myself don't want marriage, a live-in or somebody around 24-7 however, I do like having somebody to do things with and who is fun."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "You're right. Dating is a nice way to socialize and have company without the burden of a serious relationship. "}]