i am a widow.
[{"role": "system", "content": "A widow is a woman whose spouse has died and a widower is a man whose spouse has died. The treatment of widows and widowers around the world varies. A widow is a woman whose spouse has died, while a widower is a man whose spouse has died. The state of having lost one's spouse to death is termed \"widowhood\". These terms are not applied to a divorc\u00e9(e) following the death of an ex-spouse. The term \"widowhood\" can be used for either sex, at least according to some dictionaries, but the word \"widowerhood\" is also listed in some dictionaries. Occasionally, the word \"viduity\" is used. The adjective for either sex is \"widowed\". In societies where the husband is the sole provider, his death can leave his family destitute. The tendency for women generally to outlive men can compound this, as can men in many societies marrying women younger than themselves. In some patriarchal societies, widows may maintain economic independence. A woman would carry on her spouse's business and be accorded certain rights, such as entering guilds. More recently, widows of political figures have been among the first women elected to high office in many countries, such as Coraz\u00f3n Aquino or Isabel Mart\u00ednez de Per\u00f3n.\n"}, {"role": "user", "content": "Being  a widow must be sad."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah, having your spouse die sounds like a bad time. I'd be pretty bummed if my spouse died."}, {"role": "user", "content": "yea if i could even get one haha."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Very true. Though treatment of widows is different around the world."}, {"role": "user", "content": "yea some societies are so backwards."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Agreed. I also didn't know that a widower is a man whose spouse has died."}, {"role": "user", "content": "Oh really dont hear that often."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "YEah I thought it was a widow for both genders, but for a man its a widower."}]