i am recently divorced.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the termination of a marriage or marital union, the canceling or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country or state. Divorce laws vary considerably around the world, but in most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process, which may involve issues of alimony (spousal support), child custody, child visitation / access, parenting time, child support, distribution of property, and division of debt. In most countries, monogamy is required by law, so divorce allows each former partner to marry another person; where polygyny is legal but polyandry is not, divorce allows the woman to marry another person. Divorce should not be confused with annulment, which declares the marriage null and void; with legal separation or \"de jure\" separation (a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a \"de facto\" separation while remaining legally married) or with \"de facto separation\" (a process where the spouses informally stop cohabiting). Reasons for divorce vary, from sexual incompatibility or lack of independence for one or both spouses to a personality clash.\n"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I'm a divorce lawyer, known for termination of marriages or marital union.  Are there any questions you would like to ask me?"}, {"role": "user", "content": "No, thank you! Happily married here! But I do notice this one radio commercial where it's a practice appealing to men."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "There are many female divorce lawyers as well.  In fact, divorce law varies around the world but in all situations, they will need to be approved in court in a legal proceeding."}, {"role": "user", "content": "I should clarify -- the practice I mentioned positions themselves as a champion for men -- I guess the feeling is that in family situations, the woman/mother usually has a stronger case."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I suppose the reasons for divorce vary.  It can be from sexual incompatibility or just personality clashes.  In my practice, I would say that most times it's due to differences in personality than cheating."}, {"role": "user", "content": "That's both easier and harder, I imagine. How often have couples tried counseling first?"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "That's something we will recommend all our clients do and think long and hard about it.  A person must state the reason why they want a divorce at the divorce trail and be able to prove that the reason is well founded."}, {"role": "user", "content": "It sounds like you're super responsible, which is encouraging to hear. No matter what, I've heard people say it's one of the hardest things they've ever gone through."}]