i have 3 children.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Parenting or child rearing is the process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social, and intellectual development of a child from infancy to adulthood. Parenting refers to the intricacies of raising a child aside from the biological relationship. The most common caretaker in parenting is the biological parent(s) of the child in question, although others may be an older sibling, a grandparent, a legal guardian, aunt, uncle or other family member, or a family friend. Governments and society may have a role in child-rearing as well. In many cases, orphaned or abandoned children receive parental care from non-parent blood relations. Others may be adopted, raised in foster care, or placed in an orphanage. Parenting skills vary, and a parent with good parenting skills may be referred to as a \"good parent\". The English pediatrician and psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott described the concept of \"good-enough\" parenting in which a minimum of prerequisites for healthy child development are met. Winnicott wrote, \"The good-enough mother...starts off with an almost complete adaptation to her infant's needs, and as time proceeds she adapts less and less completely, gradually, according to the infant's growing ability to deal with her failure.\"\n"}, {"role": "user", "content": "I love being a parent my kids is my life."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Some people think it's just physically parenting your child but it involves emotional, social, and intellectual child rearing you know?"}, {"role": "user", "content": "I totally agree your kids is a reflection of you and just like you said you have to make sure you are always involved in all aspects. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Yes people think from a biological perspective, but there are intricacies besides that."}, {"role": "user", "content": "The intricacies  is important because your kids go through alot and most parents don't know or realize it sometimes. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Yes especially with gender, some children have difficulty with their masculinity or femininity and it can be confusing."}, {"role": "user", "content": "That is a big major issue in the US right now the gender situation and it is hard for adults to understand so imagine the kids point of view. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Yes and one of the most important statuses of a person is gender, it breaks my heart that people can be so close minded, especially parents."}, {"role": "user", "content": "It makes me sad as well my oldest is 5 going to elementary this year and when I was growing up the topic wasn't one that needed discussing but this generation it needs to be address to kids early on sorry. "}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "If a child can't have their biological parents take care of them, sometimes even siblings can be open minded or grandparents as well."}]