i am recently divorced.
[{"role": "system", "content": "Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the termination of a marriage or marital union, the canceling or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country or state. Divorce laws vary considerably around the world, but in most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process, which may involve issues of alimony (spousal support), child custody, child visitation / access, parenting time, child support, distribution of property, and division of debt. In most countries, monogamy is required by law, so divorce allows each former partner to marry another person; where polygyny is legal but polyandry is not, divorce allows the woman to marry another person. Divorce should not be confused with annulment, which declares the marriage null and void; with legal separation or \"de jure\" separation (a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a \"de facto\" separation while remaining legally married) or with \"de facto separation\" (a process where the spouses informally stop cohabiting). Reasons for divorce vary, from sexual incompatibility or lack of independence for one or both spouses to a personality clash.\n"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "I'm recently divorced man. We terminated the marriage and cancelled our legal duties. I feel so free now!. "}, {"role": "user", "content": "Sorry to hear that, but glad you're feeling good about it."}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah, for sure. Divorce laws are different all over the world, but where I am we needed to go to court and through the legal process. But it was totally worth it. "}, {"role": "user", "content": "Was it very costly?"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Well yeah, a bit. The lawyer was a lot also. An annulment would probably have been much easier, just declaring our marriage null and void. "}, {"role": "user", "content": "How long before you can annul? I think there's a limit right?"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "Hmm, I'm not exactly sure. Although when you get one they consider it retroactive. Meaning an annulment makes the whole marriage be considered invalid from the beginning. "}, {"role": "user", "content": "Make it sound so simple. What about kids, did you also have to deal with child care, custody, so on...?"}, {"role": "assistant", "content": "The child custody or legal guardianship is definitely a tough question that I am not experienced enough to answer. We don't have any kids. In that case though the designated parent will have the right to make decisions on behalf of the child."}, {"role": "user", "content": "Oh, that's good. Having children together would have made everything more complicated."}]